Schnare, Laliah ( Bud)- 89, Charleston, Queens County passed away November 22, 2009 in Queens Manor, Liverpool.
Born in New Germany, Bud grew up and lived in Charleston surrounded by her family. Bud was employed at Stedman’s in Liverpool for many years, before retiring to cater to her grandchildren.
Some people might remember Bud from working at the Stedman’s store while others will remember her for entertaining them with her guitar, accordion, or singing. She always enjoyed the company of her friends and entertaining them at the “camp” along the Medway River. She was a woman ahead of her time and lived her life as she wanted, breaking down barriers. She was one of the first women in her community to drive a car, could talk her way out of a speeding ticket, knew how to bait a hook, and was never afraid to speak her mind!! She always welcomed new people in the community and maintained many of these relationships long after they moved. She adored animals, especially her German Shepherd and Newfoundland dogs and often would prepare a feast for them. In her later years, she took care of her husband and continued to live life to the fullest.
She will be sadly missed by her son, Frank, Charleston, Granddaughter Andrea and her husband Brian Grzelewski, Houston, Texas, Granddaughter Krista Schnare, Pictou, Great-Grandsons, Alex and Eli, Daughter in-law Doris Schnare, Bridgewater.
She was predeceased by her husband, Ernest Gordon Schnare, her aunt and best friend Laura Lambert and a grandson, Paul.
Cremation has taken place and there will be a memorial service at a later date. Donations in memory of Bud may be made to any local SPCA. The family would like to thank Dr. Woodford and all of the staff at Queens Manor. On-line condolences may be made at www.chandlersfuneral.com
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Tina Selig
Thinking of you.
I still have the letter she had written me many years ago.
Pam Foley
My thoughts are with you, Frank, and your family, during this difficult time.
Rose& Philip Decker
Frank, so sorry to hear about your mom passing. I’m sure you will miss her
Philip and Rose
Deb and Chuck Taylor
Dear Frank, and all of Bud’s family , we are so saddened by the loss of this wonderful woman ,mother ,friend to all who knew her. You are so right about how she welcomed new people to the community, she did just that to us, welcomed us and became a dear friend. she would often drive over to our house with her tea pot with a tea cozy over it to have a visit with me and sit on our deck and have a little spot of special tea. When I think of the days with Bud, Gorden, Alfie and Ruth, those were the days. Your Mom , Grandmother had a wonderful full busy life. The last couple of years when we would visit her at the Manor, she really didn’t remember us so I thought, but we could still get her to laugh and I thank God for that. For that is how we will remember this great LADY. God Bless you all and keep you strong at this very sad time.
pam
dear frank, i just got the news about your mom. i am not one for many great words but u know me and i want you to know how sorry i am. i am always at the best western from tues. on so please come by for a chat or a cold one ., once again i am sorry my friend!!!!!!!!!!!
Art MacLeod
Dear Frank, I am terribly sorry to hear of the loss of you mom, my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Art
MR. & MRS MAYNARD CARRIER
HI frank , so sorry to hear about your mom my dear . . our throughts are with you honey . she was a nice & great person. remember her when she worked with mom at the stedmans store dear. she will be sadly missed honey .
Helen and David Whynach
Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this sad time. We had many good times with both Bud and Gordon….Helen and David
Philip Anthony
Frankie and family,
I was sorry to read of your mothers passing, but so glad she had a long and happy life. I shall always remember the good times we had with music and bell snickeling. She certainly was an asset to the community of Charleston. May memories help you through this difficult time.
Sincerely,
Philip
Shirley & Paul Shot
Dear Frank and family: We are saddened to read the passing of your mother. Her memories will not be forgotten. Shirley & Paul
Lydia Croft & Family
Deepest Sympathy on the passing of your Mother.
Lydia and Family
Savannah Metcalf
Frank and family,
Sending you my condolences and thoughts about your loss. Bud was a strong women with a great sense of humor and an enormous love for her family,friends and animals.
I feel grateful to have known her.
Savannah
Mr.&Mrs . Maynard Carrier
Hi Frank .we are so sorry to hear about your mom dear. I was so surprised to hear about it dear .. I had knowen your mom for a great many years when she worked at the Stedmans store with my mom . marg Freeman. Our throughts are with you frank, & we are thinking about you . we will always love her Debbie & Maynrad Carrier.
Sharon (Croft) Malone
My sincere condolences to you all. She was always a true friend to me and my family.
Donnie (Bucky) & Brenda Vaughn
I have all good memories of her…she was quite a lady…the many times I hitched a ride with her to work when she worked at Stedmans & I worked at Max Hardings….we had a car load but it was always good fun !!! So So sorry for your loss …we definitely will all meet again !!!God Bless you !!
Bucky & Brenda
Nina Vaughn-Cooper
Was so saddened to hear of Bud’s passing. Truly an icon of the community. Her vibrant and vivacious personality spread happiness to all that knew her. Many memories of her visits at home with Mom and Dad and Laura. Bell snickling, music and lots of good “cheer”!!! Bet you they are all up there now putting socks on their hands!!! My heartfelt prayers are with you…
Nina Vaughn- Cooper