Frail, Sharon Maxine, 55, of Hibernia, Queens County, passed away Sunday, December 18, 2011, in The QEII Health Sciences Centre, Halifax.
Born in Caledonia, she was a daughter of the late Mervin and Evangeline (Weare) Merry.
She was the head of Environmental Service and Maintance at North Queens Nursing Home, Caledonia, where she was beloved and well respected employee for over 25 years. Sharon loved her little dog Bear, gardening, knitting, socializing, and visiting her many friends and family. She was a member of the Caledonia United Baptist Church.
She is survived by her son Vance, of Stettler, Alberta; sisters Gail (Paul) Fancy, of Westfield, Paulette (Arden) Doak, of Fredericton, N.B., Lynn (Stephen) Martin, of Bridgewater; brothers Larry (Valerie), Leigh (Catherine), both of Maitland Bridge; many nieces and nephews.
She was predeceased by a brother James.
Visitation will be held Tuesday, December 20th, from 7-9 p.m., from Chandlers Funeral Home, Liverpool. A Funeral Service will be held Wednesday, December 21st, at 2:00 p.m., from the Caledonia United Baptist Church. Reverend John Boddy officiating. Burial will be in Maplewood Cemetery, Maitland Bridge. Family flowers only. Donations may be made to the Caledonia United Baptist Church or to the Canadian Diabetes Association. Online condolences may be made to the family at www.chandlersfuneral.com
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Mike Ozon
To Sharon’s Family:
So sorry to hear of Sharon’s passing. I got the pleasure to know her when I worked at NQNH. A very beautiful lady and will be missed by many I’m sure. She always had a smile and probably still has while watching over her family.
May you find comfort in God as He will help guide you through.
Mike Ozon
Liverpool
Vicki Frail
We send our sincere condolences to Vance and Sharon’s family and extended family. She was a wonderful woman taken away too soon – she is at peace now watching over you all. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this most difficult time. Craig and Vicki Frail
Angela Smith
To Vance and Sharon’s Famiy:
I know there are no words to ease the hurt you are feeling, you are in my thoughts and prayers. I have worked with your Mom for the past 5 years and she was a great and caring person. Heaven welcomed an angel home today…
Christeen Frail
To Vance and the Merry family:
Sharon was a wonderful person, anyone who had a chance to meet her will never forget her. Thoughts are with you all at this difficult time.
Joy Boyle and family
So sorry for your loss I have worked with Sharon for over 25 years she was a great friend and colleague, she will be sadly missed by all of us. Our thoughts are with her family.
◦May your heart and soul find peace and comfort.
◦Peace, Prayers and Blessings, be with you all.
Joy Boyle
Jordan and Bella Oickle
Leigh and family , so sorry to hear of the passing of your sister,Sharon. Our deepest sympathy is with you all. You will be in our thoughts and prayers.
Bruce and Sylvia
To Sharons Family,
Being a 2nd cousin to Sharon I really do not know how to accept the fact that my beautiful and dear friend as well as my next door has passed. I will dearly miss the stop-ins, a bit of quick conversation or the wave of the hand while she was out for her walk. God must have a very important purpose for Sharon. It has been such a privelage to know her . She will be missed by all who knew and loved her and left with beautiful memories . Goodbye my dear friend, Always in our hearts.
Roxane Canning
I don’t even know where to start because it doesn’t seem real. Sharon was such a wonderful person and will be missed by all those who knew her. I will miss our morning chats and our lunches where she always made me laugh. Hugs to all her family during this difficult time.
Dannie Hyson
I was shocked and saddened like so many others to hear of Sharon’s passing. I met her while doing work at the nursing home. It was always a pleasure dealing with her. Her warmth and sense of humour will be missed greatly I’m sure. My thoughts and deepest condolences go to all of Sharon’s family and friends.
Debbie Langlois
Though I didn’t know Sharon as long as many of you she has touched me in a way that I cannot describe. From the day I started at NQNH she was always patient with me, kind to me, and tolerate of me and my mistakes.
She always made me smile when I felt sad and she always lent me an ear when I needed it….
I feel lost without her. My condolences to Vance & the rest of her family.
“Death leaves a heartache no one can heal, love leaves a memory no one can steal”. ~From a headstone in Ireland
Debbie
brian and kim mansfield
we are sorry to hear of your loss. our thoughts and prayers are with you all at this sad time.
Patricia Selig
I am very sorry to hear of your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you at this time.
Heather Anthony
Gail and Sharon’s family, my condolences to you all at this sad time in your lives.
Walter & Sherri
Gail and Lynn:
Our condolences to you and all your family in the loss of your sister Sharon.Our thoughts and prayers are with you at the very sad time.
Myrna Crouse
It is so hard to realize that a beautiful person has passed on.Please accept my sincere sympathy and you are all in my thoughts and prayers during these difficult days. God bless!!
Elaine & Raymond Kempton
Thinking of Sharon’s family at this sad time.
Donald and Anna Conway
My heartfelt condolences go out to Sharon’s family, so sorry for your loss.
James & Tanya Grant
Thinking of you all during this very difficult time. Sharon was a wonderful lady and will be missed by all that had the pleasure of knowing her. Special hugs to Sharon’s bestest friend Carolyn.
Dannie Hyson
I was shocked and saddened, as many others, to hear of Sharon’s passing. I met Sharon while doing work at the nursing home. She was a very nice lady whose smile and sense of humour will be missed greatly. My thoughts and deepest condolences go to her family and friends.
Frank and Janet Merry -Smith - Bridgewater,N.S.
So very sorry for the loss of a beautiful Mother,Sister.Aunt and Cousin.She always had a smile for everyone and a very good sense of humour. I am sure she will be missed by everyone and she touched the hearts of All that new her. Please God take care and watch over her for all of us.Our deepest sympathy to All the family…God Bless You All at this difficult time..RIP Sharon..xoxo
Shawn, Dianna, and girls
Our hearts are sadden with the passing of a dear friend. Tears have been shed, memories have been shared and admiration will remain of Sharon. She was a wonderful woman, who always had a hello and the time to talk with you where ever you may have met her. Our thoughts and condolences go out to her family and friends at this time.
Liz Hawkes
I have worked with Sharon for 15 years. It is so hard to believe she is not going to be there any more. She is going to be missed so very much. My thoughts go out to Vance and the entire family.
Peter Howard
l am sorry to hear of your loss Vance and family,
Sharon was one of the best bosses/ friend you could every ask for even after moving on l still stayed in touch as her brightness never ceased to bring a smile and laugh she will be truly misssed by all who knew her.
Mona Mosher
Dear Vance and families of Sharon
It is with a heavy heart that I send this message to you tonight. I first came to know Sharon 35 yrs ago when I first moved to North Queens to start my married life here, she was a hairdresser @ that time and did my hair for my wedding!! Since then it has been my priviledge to have worked with her for the past 15 yrs! She is one great lady, a kind and caring person!! NQNH has definitely lost one of the best!! A friend to all!!
Vance, Bill also sends his condolences your way and hopes to have a chance to chat with you while you are home!!
Take comfort from your families and friends, they will help you through the tough times!! Take care!!
Mona & Bill Mosher
Iona Charlton
To Vance and Mike, all of Sharon’s sisters, brothers and families, and relatives and friends, I am so very sorry to hear of her passing from us, she was a wonderful, sweet person, and she will be sorely missed by all.Words can’t express our feelings of loss, but it may help to know that Sharon has been reunited with her loved ones who have gone before. Iona and family
Annie (Fader) McGee
Paulette and family,
Words cannot express how sorry I was to learn of Sharon’s passing. Sisters are such a special gift.
I hope you are all able to find peace and comfort in each other.
God Bless you all.
Sherman & Tiffany Freeman, and family
We would like to express our deepest sympathies to Vance and all of Sharon’s family, at this most difficult time. No words could possibly ease the pain, but hopefully knowing you are all in the thoughts and prayers of so many, will add some comfort now and over the days to come.
Sherry jermney & Chester Hirtle
Our deepest sympathy goes out to you Vance and the family . Sharon had sent a message to me awhile back asking how Chets mom was doing and I was always letting her know the ins and outs. She was a very caring person and always liked to say hi to everyone she knew. She will always be with you in mind and spirit and will always put a smile on your face when thinking or talking about her.Please find comfort at this time of loss.
Sherry and Chester
Lucy and Wilfred Ringer
Heartfelt condolences to Vance and all the Family, she will be truely missed by all who knew her.Our thought and prayers are with you at this difficult time. Keep her memories in your heart where she will remain forever
Dwight & Christine
Our thoughts and Prayers are with each and all of you.
She will always be at your side. Take care.
Dwight & Christine
Fred & Ruth Hawkes
Our thoughts and prayers are with Sharons family at this sad time.
Fred & Ruth Hawkes
cedric@susan smith
vance and family was so saddened to here of sharons passing she was a wonderful person whenever you met her she always had a smile and a hi she will be sadly missed ,our thoughts and prayers go out to you all
Ruth Smith
OUr hearts are breaking for you Gail–please know you can call on us any time. We wish you and your family peace. — All your friends and colleagues at Home Support.
rhonda fader
Vance and Family,it is with a heavy heart that I write this note,I am so sorry,it is hard to put into words my heartfelt sympathy for you all,just hug one another and keep one another close,remember all the wonderful times you spent with her all the times you laughed together,it will help with all the sadness that you feel now,take care,love one another God bless you all
Board of NQNH
On behalf of the Board may I offer my condolences to Sharon’s family. She was a dedicated employee for over 25 years and she will be missed.
Teresa Smiley
Dear Vance….I was both shocked and saddened to hear of your Mother’s passing. I’m so glad I got to know you through your Dad. Please accept my sincere condolences. Hold onto your fond memories and know that your friends and family are there for you.
You are in my prayers and thoughts.
With Love
Teresa
Margaret Atkins
I was so shocked to hear of Sharon’s passing.I got to know her while working at the nursing home and living in Caledonia,she was a wonderful lady and will be sadly missed by everyone who had the pleasure of knowing her.
Becky Weare
To Vance, and Sharons Family,
I have no words to describe the sadness I am feeling with the passing of Sharon. She was a Great boss and an Amazing friend. She always made us laugh and I have never seen her without that beautiful smile. She will be Greatly missed. I hope you can find peace in knowing what a wonderful legacy Sharon has left behind. Heaven has received an Amazing Angel. R.I.P. Sharon.
Joe and Sandra Curry
Paulette and Family,
Joe and I were so sorry to hear of your sisters’ passing. Please accept our sincere condolances. She will be missed by all who knew her. You are in our thoughts and Prayers.
Rickey & Patsy Whynacht
We are truly sorry to hear about Sharon passing away. It was a shock. You will be in our thoughts and prayers while you go through this hard time.
Roger and Mary Jean Merry
Mary Jean and I wish to pass on condolences to Sharon’s family and her brothers, Leigh and Larry, her sister’s, Gail, Paulette and Lynn. She will be missed by you all and also the people that knew her. We are thinking of you during this trying time.
Elaine Klaver
I was very shocked and deeply saddened by the passing of Sharon.
My thoughts of condolences go out to the family,friends, and co-workers. Sharon will be greatly missed at N.Q.N.H.
Elaine
Sterling DeLong - Hillside Pines
To Vance and Sharon’s Family:
So sad to hear of Sharon passing. She was a great person.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this sad time.
Sterling DeLong – Hillside Pines
Donna Yorke
God broke the mould when he made this loving, caring person, I give my condolences to the family and personally myself I am going to miss her very much and she will always be in my heart. Death leaves a heartache that no-one can heal, but LOVE leaves memories that no-one can steal. Love to you Sharon as now you are a Guardian Angel, which you were while on this earth. RIP my friend.
Carla Merry
My thoughts and prayers are with you in this time of loss. Thinking of fond memories of Sharon when I would visit.
Shelley and Roberta Frail
Sending our deepest heartfelt sympathy to Vance and the rest of the family during this difficult time, she was the most heartfelt person, she never missed saying hello with a big smile when ever we saw her around the community.
Annette Baker & Family
We would like to send our deepest sympathy’s to Vance and all of Sharon’s immediate family. I just seen her a few weeks ago at NQNH. May you know that she will be missed and God bless all of you. R.I.P Sharon.
Cousin Annette, Bridgetown NS
Cindy Conway
i am at a loss for words as sharon was my boss @ the nursing home whom i met 1 1/2 months ago when i started there
she has left a lasting impression on me as she always had a smiling face and was so very helpful and kind
rip sharon
Mya and Jamie Uhlman
Vance,
Jamie and I have been thinking of you a lot these past few days. Please know we will continue to do so. We miss you and hope you are doing well in Alberta. xoxo
Mya and Jamie Uhlman
Sandra Ellis
I am so sorry for your loss. Sharon was a wonderful person. She could make you smile no matter what and she was a great boss. I am going to miss her so much, going to be so hard going to work and knowing she won’t be coming with us. Vance , I want you to know she loved you with everything she had, we talked a lot about our boys. She was so proud of you. She is at peace now. ” Hugs” to all her family and friends.
danny bourgeois
sorry to hear about this sharon was a great person my prayers go out to her family may god keep her safe and watch over you in this rough time rip
patsy,arthur conrad
Vance,and Sharons family, so sorry to hear about Sharon,she was a great person, always had a smile for you whenever she saw you. I worked with Sharon 13 years ago,we had really good times. She will be missed by everyone who knew her. She is with the angles now wrapped in the arms of Jesus,safe and sound. Remember all the good times,because time does make a difference. My prayers are with you all
Elaine Frail
Vance and siblings of Sharon:
The loss of one so well loved is a great burden to carry. Memories never die so cherish them all. My prayers and sympathy go out to each of you at this difficult time.
Elaine Frail
Judi Wamboldt
Vance and the Merry Family,
I am tearfully writing this message of condolence. I had such a soft spot for Sharon and our friendship goes back a long way. She was the one who always felt responsible for cheering other people up, but when she was having a bad day, it would be over in a minute if we mentioned one word–“Vance”. She was an eternally proud mom. Although she has left us too soon, we will all have wonderful memories of Sharon.
Stephen Peck
On behalf of my entire family, I would like to pass along our condolences to all of Sharon’s family, our prayers are with you at this difficult time. Life’s course may have conspired to put a distance between us over the years but that does not mean each and every one of you are not in our hearts and we grieve along with you at this time.
Sandra and Don Kimball
Sharon’s loss will be felt by everyone who knew her.
Dwight and Louise Fancy
Vance and all of Sharons family, I am sending you our condolences as the tears fill my eyes and run down my cheeks.We have had some fun times that also made me laugh so much that tears filled my eyes and ran down my cheeks.These are the good memories that I will hold dear to my heart.I worked with Sharon for 25 years,and I will miss her dearly.She was the first person to stand behind a good friend,when her frienship was needed. Vance you were the world to her, and we heard that many times and she was so proud of you,so keep those thought in your heart and I hope that your moms spirit will help you through this difficult time. She had a wonderful smile and thats what made everyone love Sharon. Thinking of you all as you get through these heavy heart feelings. Dwight and Louise Fancy
Katherine Free
Memories live on-long after a loving heart has stopped beating. Hold your memories close-call upon them-when you need them most. They may bring a smile to your face when you least expect it. Through Sharon’s kindness, her smile,or her sense of humor. I have read many kind words from those who remember her fondly. Take comfort in that as you lay her to rest. Sharon was a very special person. In loving memory of my cousin Sharon.
Roberta uhlman
well vance.my thoughts are with you and your mom she was a sweet cousin too me. she always had that sweet smile. and a very nice personality .she loved everyone and they all loved her too.she is resting peaceful .SO memories will be in my heart for the both off you. i will never forget her . loved her alot.
Ron, Suzanne & Spencer Frail
Heartfelt condolences go out to you Vance and all the Family; Sharon will be truly missed by all who knew her. She was a very special lady. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time.
Flora Hunter & Read Doak
Paulette,we would like to extend our sincere sympathy to you and your family.Our hearts are sore.Just know that your sister Sharon in spending Christmas in Heaven.Small comfort I know but just think how happy your mother,father and Jimmy must have been to welcome her.I’am sure they were waiting at Heaven’s gates to take her hand.God bless
Del and Mary Weare
Vance, Gail, Paulette, Lynn, Leigh and Larry it is very hard to believe Sharon is gone from us. Vance, she lived for you, you was everything to her. She loved her sisters and brothers also. Hang on to the many fond memories you have. When things slow down take time to read John 5:28,29 it will reassure you of her resurrection. With our Deepest Sympathy, Love Cousin Mary and Del.
Al and Sadie Huskins
Vance ,Family,and Friends of Sharon,
We wish to extend our deepest and most heartfelt sympathy at
this difficult time. Please know our thoughts and prayers are with you.
I worked with Sharon for the 12 years I ran my delivery business,
doing pick-ups for the nursing home. She was the nicest person I
dealt with for her kindness,great sense of humour,and caring way
she had for everyone. So hard to believe she has left us. Her memory will always be a comfort.
Sincerely,
Al and Sadie Huskins
Bridgewater
Tammy Nickerson (Whynot)
I did not know Sharon, but went to high school with Vance. Please accept my condolences at this very difficult time. I found this poem recently when my uncle passed and found it comforting. I hope it does the same for you as well.
The Final Flight
Don’t grieve for me, for now I’m free,
I’m following the path God laid for me.
I took his hand when I heard his call,
I turned my back and left it all.
I could not stay another day,
To laugh, to love, to work, to play.
Tasks left undone must stay that way,
I’ve found that peace at the end of the day.
If my parting has left a void,
Then fill it with remembered joy.
A friendship shared, a laugh, a kiss,
Ah, yes, these things too I will miss.
Be not burdened with times of sorrow,
I wish you the sunshine of tomorrow.
My Life’s been full, I savoured much,
Good friends, good times, a loved one’ touch.
Perhaps my time seemed all too brief,
Don’t lengthen it now with undue grief.
Lift up your heart and share with me,
God wanted me now, He set me free.
Eric, Valerie Frail
We would like to say how sorry we are to hear about the loss of a great Friend to all who knew Sharon. She was also a great Mother and Sister. You will be greatly missed, may God be with Vance and all your family through this time of sorrow. Eric,Valerie and Family
Pat Canning-Selig
My heartfelt condolences go out to Sharon’s family. God Bless
Lynda&Phil Hanshaw
So sorry to hear of Sharon’s passing.Lots of good memories from times at North Queens. She will certainly be missed by all who knew and loved her.
Western Nova Scotia Draft Horse Association
To the Families of Sharon Frail,please accept our deepest condolences on the passing of your loved one.You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Melanie Weare-Jackson
There are not many words to say that have not been said many times before.I will miss her at work…..it will be strange without her there. I hope that her family knows how loved she was by everyone. My prayers are with you all.
Doreen and Brian Baxter
Sincere sympathy to all of Sharons family. Our thoughts are with you all, at this time.
Doreen & Brian
Bonnie and Garnet delong
Vance,Leigh&Cathy,Paulette&Arden,Gail&Paul,Lynn&Stephen,
Larry&Valerie
We are sennding you lots of prayers and blessings at this very difficult time. Sharon was family to me and we shared life together at work every day. She was a very caring person and always had time to stop at work and talk to Peter Sutherland who will miss her kind smile for him. I feel it was a privilege to work with Sharon over the past 25+ years and her kindness,generousity and good humour will never be replaced.
Love to all Bonnie & Garnet
Linda & Floyd Frail
what does one say at a time such as this, to say good-bye to
someone as sweet and honest as Sharon just breaks one’s heart. We had the privelage of knowing Sharon personally and shared good times and made lasting memories.
Vance for you she will always walk by your side,what you both had will never fade.
To the family love never dies it will always live within your hearts.
Bonded by birth, never separated only silent.
GOD had to have needed a brighter smile in heaven to have taken Sharon so early.
Please know that many others share in your sorrow .
North Queens has lost a very precious individual
Bob & Marlean Rhodenizer, Debbie Zwicker
Lynn and all members of your family,
We were saddened to hear of your great loss. May God
surround your hearts with his peace. As you share your precious
memories, and bond together as family, and supported by your
friends, may you carry with you an abiding comfort. God bless
and keep you. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Sincere Sympathy, Bob and Marlean Rhodenizer, Debbie Zwicker
Rodney and Shelley Mansfield
To Vance and family: We were shocked and sad to hear of such a great loss. We hold many fond memories of Sharon from years ago. Please accept our sincere condolences ….. RIP Sharon
Steven Ringer and Family
To Vance and all of Sharons Family;
So sorry to hear about your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Lucille Mailman
To Vance and the Merry family,
i ‘ve had the honor to know your mom and worked with her over 20 yrs. She was a kind person and always had a listening ear, i truly missed that when i left the home. they truly lost one of the best and heaven gained another beautiful angel. i’m so sorry for your loss and can only say hold tight onto those wonderful memmories that you’ve shared with your mom. R.I.P. Sharon.
Tanya Burkholder
Such a shock to lose someone so kind and caring. My thoughts and prayers to the family at this very difficult time.
Rev Doug Mailman
I was shocked and saddened at the unexpected death of Sharon.Vance and family you have my deepest sympathy and you will be in my prayers.She was a very nice lady and always had a smile for you,not just at the nursing home,but in public also.
Barrie & Barb Veinot
Our sincere sympathy to you Vance & the family. Your Mom was a great neighbor, we’ll miss her.
Karen Earley Beliveau
Although I did not know Sharon very well, { she was just a young child when I left to live in Montreal,} I did have the pleasure of having a few conversations with her when I went to visit my Mother at the Nursing Home. As well, our Grandmothers were sisters.
May she be at peace, even though she was far too young . . . .