Borden L. Conrad, Q.C., 72, of West Berlin, Queens County, died Friday, January 29th, 2021, at Queens General Hospital, Liverpool, Queens County, N.S., of Statin-Induced Myopathy.
He was born in West Berlin on August 6th, 1948, the only son of the late William L. Conrad and Lalia M. Conrad (née Wolf). He was predeceased by his older sister Maxine M. Hill (née Conrad) of Windsor, Nova Scotia. He is survived by his wife of fifty years, (Margaret) Christine Conrad (née Cole) and two sons, Hayes W. Conrad and Nathaniel I.W. Conrad, both of Eagle Head.
He graduated with a B.A. from the University of King’s College, Halifax, Nova Scotia in 1969, and an LLB from Dalhousie University Law School in 1971. Additionally, he received his B.Ed. from Dalhousie University in 1979.
He was called to the Bar on February 4th, 1972, and took up practice in Bridgewater, N.S., later expanding, with his partner, Thomas J. Feindel, to a second office in Liverpool, N.S., where, until recently, he continued his practice under the name Conrad & Feindel.
He was appointed Queen’s Counsel in 1988.
He was a passionate supporter of his parish, his community, the Anglican church, his family and friends. He was a lifelong member of St. John the Evangelist Anglican Church in Eagle Head, Nova Scotia, where he provided lay leadership, served on the parish vestry, and was a founding member of the book club. He also served as church historian, authoring the book So Great a Cloud of Witnesses. His faith was of deep importance to him and unwaveringly supported him through to the end.
He will be remembered as much for his warmth, humour, kindness and laugh as for his extensive knowledge encompassing, among other things, the law, genealogy, and local history.
Funeral arrangements are under the direction of Chandler’s Funeral Home. Condolences may be made at www.chandlersfuneral.com. A private burial service will be conducted by The Rev. Cherry Workman, at Saint John the Evangelist Church Cemetery, West Berlin, N.S.
Due to Covid restrictions, a funeral service will be held at a later date.
The family wishes to especially thank Dr. Woodford and the caring staff at Queens General Hospital.
Memorial donations may be made to St. John Anglican Church., Eagle Head, N.S., or the Primate’s World Relief and Development Fund.
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Charlotte and Bob Kelley
To Borden’s family. Please accept our sincere condolences on your loss. May your wonderful memories help you get through the difficult days ahead.
SUSAN LETSON
Christine and family..
Please accept my condolences at Borden’s death..I would run into him around town and always enjoyed our exchanges. He also helped me when I bought my first property in this area..
Susan Letson
Sherry and Grant Bishop
Oh, so sorry to hear this, Christine. We feel very sad for you and your sons. We will remember Borden as a gifted storyteller.
Charmaine Stevens
I’m so sorry to hear of Borden’s passing. I have many great memories of him as he welcomed me to the practise of law in Liverpool. Always willing to help me out when I had a question or two, sharing a laugh at the Registry of Deeds as we waded through piles of books in the vault. Take care Hayes and the rest of the family.
Sharon McKenzie
My sympathy to Christine and family for your loss. I always enjoyed talking to
Borden and he was helpful to Bernd and me over the years and kind to me after Bernd passed away.
Glenn Cross
Borden was a good friend. I will truly miss him.
Boomie and Brenda Whynot
Nathaniel and family
Our deepest condolences go to all of you for the loss of Borden
Jesse Fawthrop
Sending every ounce of love in my body to you all.
Andrew Griffiths
My sincere condolences to Christine and her sons on the untimely passing of Borden. I didn’t know him well but we crossed paths over the years beginning when we both went to high school in Liverpool. May he Rest In Peace.
Joy McDonald
Christine and family,
Sorry to hear of Borden’s passing. RIP
Lorraine and Terry Dalby
So sorry for your loss Nat
Brenda and Bob
Christene, Hayes and Nathaniel: Words cannot express our sadness when we received word of Borden’s passing. His presence in the second pew at church will be missed by many. His knowledge of our ancestry will never be duplicated by anyone and for all the times he passed this on to his extended family will always be appreciated. HIs kindness to me especially was always appreciated and I will hold his warm embrace on Christmas Eve close to my heart for the rest of my life. We know Borden’s love for his family will be a pathway forward for you and the many happy memories he shared with you will hopefully ease your grief now and in the days ahead. Our deepest sympathy goes out to you at this very sad time.
Peter & Tammy Bowers
Our concern Condolences to the family of Borden
Celeste Johnston
Although I knew Borden for many years from the time he was our lawyer when we bought land here, I got to know him well over the past three years when I went in the church Council. He was a wonderful mentor to me, explained things in detail, and added occasional wonderful humour to our meetings. A most devout man. We will miss him sorely throughout the parish. My heartfelt condolences to the family.
Charlene and Bruce White
We have so many fond memories of Borden, professionally and personally and we will remember him dearly. Our deepest sympathy is extended to Christine, Nathaniel and Hayes.
Verna Wagner
I was so saddened to hear of Borden’s passing and will miss seeing him at church and having a chat with him. He was truly a devoted member of the parish and will be missed by many. I will always remember how he welcomed my young grandchildren ( no matter how active or noisey they were) to our services.
To Borden’s family, may your cherished memories of
Borden help ease the pain of your loss.
Anne and Allan Laws, Calvin Whynot
Christine, Hayes and Nathaniel, we are so very sorry to learn of Borden’s passing. Our mother, Shirley Whynot, had Conrad roots and loved that she and Borden were related and could talk about the family history. They saw each other at church regularly until Mom’s passing in 2015. After that, Borden always spoke so lovingly of Mom whenever we would see him. He had a kindness for family and the elderly which was so endearing. At this difficult time, know that our sympathy is with you and that you are in our thoughts and prayers.
Calvin and Crystal Brannen
Nathaniel and Family
Our thoughts and prayers are with you all during this difficult time.
Clyde and David Whynot
my Sincere Condolence to the Family of the Borden Conrad going to miss at Church Rest easy
The Dalby’s
We are all thinking of each of you and hope that your loving memories will help you get through this devastating loss. We are sending lots of love and will be thinking of you in all the days to come.
Love Terry, Lorraine, David, Amanda, Berkeley, Ella, and Teagan.
Beverley & Betty-Jean Colp.
To the Conrad family we send our condolences in the passing of Borden. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this time. Beverley & Betty-Jean Colp.
Brenda Munroe
Christine, Hayes, and Nathaniel
I was shocked when I heard of your husband’s/dad’s passing. We thought you guys were great. Borden would always meet us with a smile an always ever so friendly. When he moved in next door to us he introduced you all to us and would always stop us to talk a minute when going by. I hope you guys have all your wonderful memories forward in your head an can see those an not dwell on what is no more. God bless you all.
Brenda Munroe an Andrew Freeman
Victoria Conrad
Christine and family so sorry to hear of Bordens always enjoyed our talks he will be extremely missed in our small community our deepest condolences may he rest in peace Lewis and Victoria Conrad
Cathie Billings
Sincere condolences to the Conrad family. I have known and worked with Borden for many years, He was always ready to help., He had an infectious smile that always made you feel good.
Laura & Ian Fletcher
Nathaniel and family,
We are so sorry for your loss. We hope all your shared memories and time spent together bring you comfort during this time. Thinking of you all.
Kathy & Tim Whynot
Hayes, Nathaniel and Christine I was sad to hear of Borden’s passing. I have many fond memories of him and always enjoyed our conversation. He will be greatly missed. When I did my grandfather’s eulogy he loved the poem that I wrote and asked for a copy of it. So I send this alone to him, knowing that he is in a better place where he is wrapped in love.
I AM SIXTEEN
I am Sixteen,
In my soul, I am forever young.
The wrinkles of time a mask.
My aching joints, just a facade,
A trick, a lark, a joke.
I am Sixteen,
With the wisdom, of all my years
With the knowledge of how it is to grow old.
But I am still sixteen.
I am Sixteen,
With so much more to do in this life,
So much more of the world to explore,
So many adventures left to have,
I am sixteen.
Right down to my very core.
I feel alive, like anything is possible.
But I am an old man.
I am an old man,
Who has led a full life.
I have loved many, been loved by many,
Had many adventures, many joys.
My soul is now free.
I am now forever sixteen.
By Kathy Whynot
Paul & Carol Conradluap
Bordan will be missed by his family members, fellow workers, business associeites and many extended Conrad relatives. He drew out on a piece of paper at his Bridgewater office where he and us came together from memory. He was always friendly, concerning, and dedicated in his legal profession.We share the grief to his family members. You have so much of Borden’s past to draw on to help you through the future.
Shawna Beck
Hayes, Nathaniel, and Christine,
I’m so sorry to hear of your loss. Please know that you are all in my thoughts. Take care.
Pat Walcott
Dear Christine. I am so sorry to hear of your incredible loss. It is like a piece of my youth is lost. My High school and early adulthood years were enriched by you both and I will never forget all the fun times we had, plus all the studying. I so grateful for his kindness.
Patsy Walcott ( nee Croxen)
Marie Wambolt
Christine,Nathaniel and Hayes.
Condolences on the passing of your loved one Borden will be greatly missed in this community. May the memories you have comfort you in the days a head.
Kirby Gendron
Christine, Hayes and Nathaniel
I am so very sorry for your loss. I was saddened to hear of his passing. It was a pleasure to know and work for him. Thoughts and prayers.
Dawn Hanley
So sorry to hear of your dad’s passing Nathanial. Hugs to you and your family.
Bernard & Betty Conrad
We are so sorry to sorry to hear of Borden’s passing. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all at this sad time.
Our deepest condolences to Christine and family.
Rachel and Robert Dexter
Saddened to hear of Borden’s sudden passing. He surely will be missed by so many. Sincere condolences to family at this time.
David and Janet spicer
Our deepest condolences to all of Borden’s family at this difficult time.
TONY WHYNOT
SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS,HE WAS A KIND LOVING MAN ,RIP,SINCERE CONDOLENCES TO HIS FAMILY AT THIS TIME.
Allen Fownes
Sincere condolences to the Conrad family on this terrible loss. His memory is a blessing to many people that he helped over the years. I learned many things from Borden working through legal problems on the other side of files. He was always a gentleman and well respected by his fellow practitioners at the Bar.
Marg Millard
Christine and family..
Please accept my condolences at Borden’s death.
Toby Mendel
To Christine and other family members,
It is always incredibly difficult to lose someone close. I hope you will find some succour in knowing how most of us will remember Borden, as a lively, fun and funny (meaning mostly humorous but also a bit peculiar) person who it was always a pleasure to be with. Our thoughts are with you.
Freda Muise & Family
We are sorry to hear about Borden’s passing our thoughts and prayers are with you all at this difficult time.
Maggie and Peter Fortey
Dear Christine, my heart goes out to you, and to Hayes and Nathaniel.
To lose such a fine man, is a great loss indeed.
Borden was such a charming fellow, always so interesting, and interested.
It was alway so evident to me how much he loved you, Christine.
It was also clear how much he cared and treasured, both his sons.
I was also so impressed that Borden raised cattle.
And him being a lawyer, and a Queens Counsel at that.
An impressive and unique man.
Please accept our sincere sympathy.
May his memory always be a blessing.
Sending love.
Bob and Sharon Pulsifer
Christine:
Our condolences to you and your family.
We were saddened to learn of your loss.
We wish you strength in getting through this most difficult of times.
Rouane Mendel
Dear Christine and Family
Please accept our deepest condolences for your tragic loss. We live in England so I haven’t seen Borden for some time but I have the most vivid memories of lively Boxing Day parties in Mahone Bay and fabulously hospitable evenings spent in your home. Borden is unforgettable – filled with a huge zest for life, an unrivalled sense of humour, warmth and an infectious joie de vivre. He combined these lovely qualities with a true sensitivity, sense of compassion and great kindness.
He was a lovely, lovely man and you must all miss him dreadfully. May he rest in peace and may light perpetual shine upon him. Love from Susie Mendel and Nick Fishwick
Yorke Tutty
Christine, Hayes and Nathaniel,
I am so sorry for your loss. Queens and Lunenburg Counties have lost a dedicated lawyer
and historian. His recollections of local families and their origins and interrelationships, were
truly amazing. Borden’s knowledge and appreciation of the law respecting land conveyancing
in rural Nova Scotia were perhaps without equal.
His contributions are chronicled in the public Land Registry, and will live on.
Sheree Chandler
Dear Christine, Hayes, Nathaniel and Conrad Family,
Please accept our deepest sympathies in the loss of your beloved husband and father. May your memories ease your grief and the company of family and friends comfort you during this difficult time.
Sheree, Amanda and Jacob Chandler
Peter and Joanie Davies
Christine and family,
Our sincere condolences on Borden’s passing. God Bless
Jordan and Bella Oickle
Christine, Hayes, and Nathaniel
So sorry to hear of Borden’s passing , he will be sadly missed. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. R.I.P. Borden
Carolyn Hudson
So very sorry for your loss, Borden was such a gentle person. My prayers are with you all! Carolyn Hudson-Henley
Emily Feindel
Christine, Hayes & Nathaniel,
Very sorry to hear the news of Borden passing. Please accept my condolences and deepest sympathy. Sending love, thoughts and prayers during this difficult time.
Allan & Beth LaRocque
To The Family,
We are very sorry to hear of Borden’s passing. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Deborah Conrad
Dear Christine, Hayes and Nathaniel, I was so shocked to hear of Borden’s passing. Accept my sincere condolences as I know how much he will be missed by his family and friends. Draw your strength from each other and the memories that you’ve made over the years and hold them close to your heart. God Bless
Carol Hubley
I am so sorry to hear of Borden’s death. It always seemed as Borden was always present, when we were growing up in Eagle Head, and being a nuisance to Maxine and I. Then later at every event associated with family and friends, he was there to help.
He will be so missed by many people
Sincerely Cousin Carol (nee Conrad)
gloria aulenback and
gloria aulenback
february 4, 2021 at 9:10 pm
to the conrad family, i am so sorry to hear of bordens passing. my thoughts and prayers are with you
at this sad time.
Philip Leefe
Christine, Hayes and Nathaniel, my deepest condolences on Borden’s passing, Over the past 25 years I had the pleasure of working with Borden on numerous files and he was always a gentleman to deal with. Borden had a great love of the law and he was a wealth of knowledge of all things property. He will be greatly missed by his clients and his colleagues in the Lunenburg/Queens Bar. My thoughts are with you.
Ross Craig
Goodbye, far too soon, to my friend of 35 years, my guide and north star. My deepest sympathies to his family, and everyone else who felt about Borden as I do.
Ross Craig
West Dublin
Janet & Peter Fountain
Christine, Hayes and Nathaniel, we are so sorry about your loss. We always enjoyed the opportunities we had to talk with Borden. Conversations always seemed to lead to reminiscences about family connections, church connections, and historical events (usually humorous). He will be missed by many, including us.
Nettie and jack wilson
Sorry to hear about Bordens passing our thoughts and prayers are with you all at this sad time.
Allen R Whynot
Nathaniel and Family. I’m so sorry to hear of your loss. Please accept my condolences and deepest sympathy. My heart is with you. Memories last forever. God Bless.
Lorraine MacGowan
To the Conrad family I am sorry to hear of Borden’s passing. We bought and traded cattle years ago and Borden was always so helpful in legal matters. Always had a smile and a positive outlook. He will be missed by many.
Tom Boyle
Christine
I’m still in shock. Borden was all the things people are recounting of him. Janet and I loved our visits way back when. You were her other sister. What I will always remember about Borden is the way he looked at you. You were the love of his life and everyone saw it in his eyes. That love will never die. Tom
Gerald and Roberta wortman
To the family. We were sorry to hear of the passing of Borden we would like yo send our sincere condolences
judy quinn
to his family and friends so very sorry for your loss
Gordon and Nancy Davidson and family
We send our condolences to the Conrad family on Borden’s passing. The local Bar, his Church and community have all been enriched by his life of service and devotion.
Gordon and Nancy Davidson and family
Jim, Sandi McCorry and family
To Borden’s family we send our condolences on his passing. Borden was always ready to offer a helping hand and happy to offer information or answer questions on our common Colp relations.
Crystal Schenkels (Cheung)
Nathaniel, I’m so sorry to hear about your dad. Cherish your memories of your time together. I’m thinking of you and your family.
Alex & Marie MacLeod
Christine, Hayes and Nathaniel,
A shock to hear of Borden’s passing.
Sincere condolences.
May your special memories of him make the time ahead easier.
Derek and Shelly Neilson
Nathaniel and family
Our sincere condolences on the loss of your father.
Gail Meisner
My sincerest condolences to Borden’s family. I was greatly saddened when I heard of Borden’s passing. He will be greatly missed at church services and throughout our Parish. May your memories carry you through the tough moments. He is with his heavenly father and will suffer no more. Take care of each other and share your many stories.
Sincerely, Gail Meisner
Sheila Floyd
So sorry to hear of Borden’s passing. My thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time.
Lewis & Connie Conrad
So very sorry to hear of Borden’s passing. Please accept our sincere condolences. You’re all in our thoughts and prayers.
Gail & Valerie Conrad
Christine, Nathaniel & Hayes – Gail and I are very saddened to hear of Borden’s passing. We’ve know Borden forever it seems and was a frequent visitor at our house when we were small. He was always a joy to talk to and we appreciate all the history of the Conrad family that he could provide. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this very difficult time.
Linda Howard
Christine
Devastated to hear of Borden’s passing. He was an important part of my high school years of which I have many fond memories. Please , both you and your boys ,accept my sincerest condolences and know he will be remembered by many in the years to come.
Billand Anna Cox
Conrad family
We are sorry to hear of Borden’s passing and send heart felt condolences. Borden was always helpful to his clients
and especially seniors when dealing with estates. He will be missed for his compassion and friendly ways. May he rest in peace.
Kim & Isaac
Christine,Hayes & Nathaniel; We are saddened to hear of Borden’s passing, our thoughts are with you at this difficult time.
Sarah Petite
Hi Christine, Bob told me about Borden and I felt really sad, especially for you and your boys. It’s been many years since I saw all of you, but I have very good memories. I wish you healing and comfort, and will think of Borden a lot in the coming days. Love Sarah
Diane and Donald White
Nathaniel and family ,
Thinking of you all, sending our sincere condolences.
Ellicott
Dear Christine, Hayes and Nathaniel,
Borden’s departure from our world leaves a big void that can only be filled with wonderful memories of a life well lived. Borden’s larger than life personality has left a huge impact on anyone who had the honor of knowing him. We hope you will find some comfort within your family and in the company of friends during this painful time. Your grief is truly shared by many.
This crazy pandemic keeps us away, but we are sending you our love from Ottawa.
Sincerely
Dylan, Vangie, Claire and Gilbert
Marie Lamrock
Sorry to hear of Borden’s passing. He was a great asset to his community and to the law community. He always had a hearty laugh no matter the circumstances. May all the good memories of him bring comfort to the family during this difficult time.
Charlie
Our soul lives on in the memories of others.
You are with me. Thank you, Borden.
Denise (Walker) Elderkin
Christine, Nathaniel, and Hayes,
I am truly sorry and saddened to hear that Borden passed away. Thinking of you all during this time and remembering so many fond memories.
Denise
Michael Power
Sincere condolences to all the family .I practice law here on the South Shore, and had many dealings with Borden over the years. He commanding knowledge of property law was widely respected in the legal profession. He was always a pleasure to deal with and a had a sharp wit . May he rest in peace.
Darren Whynot & Lisa Tarr
To all the family we are sorry for your loss
Gary C. Bardon
Vicki and I extend our condolences to Borden’s family. My fondest memory of Borden: When he first joined me in the practice of law we attended a dance at LaHave RiverYacht Club. I was amazed when this serious and competent young barrister stepped onto the dance floor where the joy, exuberance and vitality of his dancing made a major contribution to the enjoyment of everyone in attendance. I greatly appreciated his professionalism while we worked together as law partners but, upon remembering him, my thoughts turn to the moment that revealed this other Borden.
Ken Mosher
Christine, Nathanial, and Hayes
Sorry to hear of Borden’s passing. Sincere condolences to the family.
Bob and Karen
Dear Nathaniel,
We’re so very sorry that you’ve lost your Dad. Bob always found him to be a pleasure to be around and very down to earth. We know from the many comments that he will be dearly missed in his community and church. Our thoughts and prayers will be with you and your family as you grieve his loss.
Marcus, Deb, and Rosslyn
Our deepest condolences to you, Christine, and to Hayes and to Nathaniel. My Dad, Milton Rayner, always loved to hear Borden’s accounts of Queen’s County history and my Mum, Rosslyn, fondly recalls lobster meals prepared in his special way. Borden was a gifted raconteur and supporter of local history and the arts. We remember him fondly for his love of the land and preservation of the old ways of life.
Becca Strople
So very sad to hear of your sudden loss (and ours). Borden and my brother Stephen were at Kings together and I met him when I got there 2 years later.
He has been my lawyer all these years and many wonderful hours were spent on unrelated topics and in good conversations about our families and many common interests
( especially the Anglican Church).
He had a wonderful laugh and sense of the ridiculous and always was authentically interested and thoughtful with his good advice.
He will be missed tremendously.
Doris Lohnes Schnare
Christine, Hayes and Nathaniel, The words are hard to find to say how sad I am to know that Borden has passed!! I am sure that it is such a shock to everyone who knew and loved him. He was so kind and helpful whenever one needed his wise counsel, his wide knowledge of our history and geneaology, and his faithfulness and hard work in church matters. He will be truly missed by all of us. My heartfelt condolences go out to you, his family.
Bob Chipman
So sorry to hear of Borden’s passing. He was a respected lawyer. A gentleman. My deepest condolences to Borden’s family.
Lorimer and Evelyn
Thinking of you all … Borden will be missed by many … and I will miss his smile that seemed to be permanent. Take care of each other
Peter Leslie
Christine, I am so sorry for your loss. It was always so nice to see Borden’s smiling face around town. He was my go to for genealogy and local history and I will miss him. Rick and I send our best wishes for you, Nathanial and Hayes.
Harold & Ivy Harnish
To Borden’s family
So sorry to hear of your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Nick Lenco
I am sorry for your loss. When I first started practicing in Liverpool, Borden was extremely generous to me with his time and answered many questions that I had. I truly appreciated his willingness to share his expertise. My best wishes for your family.
Judi & Ken Minard
Christine, Hayes and Nathaniel
We were deeply saddened to learn of Borden’s passing. He was truly a remarkable man. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Marcia and Craig Harding
Christine, Nathanial and Hayes. So sorry to hear of Borden’s passing.
Borden always had a friendly smile, from the days we knew him in High School to his long and successful career as a lawyer. We did not see him often but when we did we always had that wonderful kind of conversation you have when you meet an old friend you have not seen for awhile.
You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Sharon and Barry Levy
Nathanial, Very sorry to hear of your father’s passing. Please accept our sincere condolences
Ruth Laurinnat
To the Conard family we wish to send our deepest condolences from Peter Plettner and Ruth Laurinat .
Eddy Perry
We are sorry to hear of Borden’s passing . He did work for 3 generations of our family . He was always very helpful and fair .
Gay Harley
Christine, I have been thinking of you for weeks now and the passing of Borden. I just wanted to tell you how honoured I was to know him and to enjoy his wit, humour, and profound intelligence. It was a sincere blessing to be a part of his world. I am so sorry for your loss. With hugs and love from Gay (friend of Sandie)
Bobby and Noreen Feindel, Ottawa
Offering our sincere condolences and sympathy to the Conrad family for your great loss.
Brian Kaulback
Sincere Condolences to Borden’s family, may he Rest In Peace!
Shirley Dagley
My husband, Roy and I visited with you when you visited with “Grannie” Troyer. Borden was my champion in high school as I was so homesick and Borden would say kind words to anyone who was being stressed.
We have not seen you for years and so I was shocked when I heard the news. The last time I saw Borden was when he was serving at the supper in Brooklyn. always kind Shirley and Roy Dagley, Voglers Cove
Art Pinkerton & Valerie Angeloro
Just found out about Borden’s passing. Being in the US, we are out of touch.
Borden was our lawyer and friend. We had good legal services and many interesting conversations. It was especially nice that he came to our very small wedding at our cottage.
We will miss him.
Lynda Willyard
My sincere condolences to Christine, Nathaniel, and Hayes. It was a pleasure working for Borden. I often think back on my time with Conrad and Feindel with fondness. It was an honour to work for, and learn from, such a well respected and funny person.
Penelope Harwood
Hello Christine,
I am so sorry to hear about Borden’s death, late though my condolences are. We had such fun at your house, noisy, argumentative lobster dinners, always a pot of soup on the stove, a warm welcome and a comfy overnight stay. You will have been a widow for over a year now: I hope it isn’t as strange for you. Simon and I have been in Victoria for many years: we just celebrated our 40th wedding anniversary. We have 3 children, Henry, Alexandra and Emily, and a 10-month old grandson, Beau. They all live close by, so we are fortunate to see them often. I hope you are well.