
BORDEN – Elizabeth May “Betty”, 84, of Milton, Queens County, passed away peacefully in Queens Manor, Liverpool on Monday, May 25, 2015.
Born in Liverpool, she was a daughter of the late Olive (Whynot) Foster.
Betty was an employee for Fay’s Nursing Home, Liverpool for several years attending to the elderly. She spent many years outside the home housekeeping for others.
She is survived by her daughters Charlotte (Robert) Wolfe, of Brooklyn, Karen Borden (Lawrence Theriau) of Milton and her son Lloyd (Wendy) Borden of Milton. Grandchildren Benjamin, Lesley and Amanda Beth Borden, Michelle and Dale Wolfe. Her sister Catherine (Jordan) Whynot of Milton and her brother Earl of Dartmouth.
Cremation has taken place under the direction of Chandlers’ Funeral Home, Liverpool. A private family interment will take place at a later date. No flowers by request, donations may be made to the IWK. Online condolences may be made to www.chandlersfuneral.com
Offer Condolence for the family of Borden; Elizabeth May “Betty”

Cavell Nowe
So sorry to hear about your Moms passing Karen,our thoughts are with you at this sad time.
Viv Croft (Whynot)
Karen……..sorry to hear of your moms passing…..
Freda Muise
TO: the borden Family at this difficult time my deepest thoughts and prayers are with all.Love Freda
Fred and Samantha Murphy
To Betty’s family,
We would like to extend our deepest sympathies to you all. Betty was a friendly little lady with a big heart.
I know my daughter is certainly going to miss her and all the hugs and kisses.I am sure she will make a wonderful angel up in Heaven and continue to watch over and guide her family.Rest easy.
Tish Fisher
Aweee, to the Borden Family , So sorry for your loss. May poor wee Betty R.I.P., no matter what else , she could still make you laugh. Take Care all, Sincerely , Tish and Richard .
Anne and Darrell
So sad to hear of your loss. She was a sweet lady who cared deeply for her family as well as all the neighborhood kids!!!
Queenie
I am saddened to hear of Betty’s passing. She was a unique little lady. I will miss seeing her at the Manor.
My sympathy to all the Borden Family.
Kevin and Cindy Borden
Lloyd and Weny , so sorry to hear about your mom’s passing. She will always be with you in your hearts and memories. Xo Kevin and Cindy
patty
To the Borden Family I will miss Betty at the Manor it was my pleasure and privilege to care for her. She was a unique and special little lady. My heart felt condolence to you all. God Bless.,
Valerie Inness
Dear Karen and Family:
I am so sorry for your loss. I enjoyed meeting you and your Mom at all the yard sales on Saturday morning. Your pictures shows the way she always smiled when we met. My deepest condolence to all.
Sincerely
Valerie
Faye and John
To the Bordon family, very sorry to hear of your moms passing, our heart felt condolences to all the family .
Val Conrad
Lloyd, Wendy and families – So sorry to hear of your Mom’s passing. Thinking of you at this very difficult time.
Dianne (Wolfe) Wamboldt
To the Family>>>
So sorry to hear of Betty’s passing. She was always very friendly and ready for a chat, no matter where I saw her. My condolences to all of you.
JPhn & Peggy Whynot
To Betty’s Family:
So sorry to hear of Betty’s passing. She always had a smile for everybody. Such a nice lady. Thinking of all of you with heartfelt sympathy at this very sad time.
Dennis & Sherri Harrington
To The Family,
So sorry to learn of your Mom’s passing, she was such a sweetie. I will miss seeing her at the manor.
Take care,
Sherri & Dennis
Crystal Roy
Michelle and Family,
Very saddened to hear of Betty’s passing. Michelle spoke fondly and often of Betty, she was truly one of a kind. May you all find comfort in each other for the difficult days ahead.
Margo Hanley
To all of Betty’s family: I am so sorry to hear of your loss. She was a sweet little lady at the Manor. She is now at peace so treasure the years you have had with her.
Irving and Jeanette Whynot
Lloyd, charlotte, Karen and Families . Sorry to hear about your mom.She was a very friendly person . Our thoughts are with you all at this sad time.
Betty Everett
To the Borden families, Sorry for the loss of your mom.She was very friendly and always had a chat with me when ever we met .
Betty Whynot
Karen, Charlotte, Lloyd and Families
I am so sorry to hear of your moms passing, she was a lovely friend whom I knew since we worked together at Fays Nursing home.I am sending my condolences to you all.
Jeff & Erin Ingram
Lloyd, Wendy and the rest of Betty’s Family
We were so sorry to hear about your mom, we are thinking of you all and sending our sincerest condolences to each of Betty’s family.
David Whynot
Wendy and Lloyd and family sorry to hear the passing of your mother she is now in Heaven
Adrian and Sharon Westlake
To Betty’s Family. I’m so sorry for your loss. But I’m sure you have many happy memories. I met Betty many years ago when I would go to Milton to visit my sister. She was Sweet, Kind and Friendly. Even as the years went by and we all grew older, whenever we seen each other we always had a chat. She was truly an amazing lady…. xo
Brenda Lawrence /Jim Hubley
To Betty’s Family . So sorry for your loss .Rember your fun time’s with her .It help’s to heal the pain .
Sincerely Brenda and Jim .
Gordon and Jackie Eisnor
Charlotte,Karen and Families:Sorry to hear of your mom’s passing.Sincere sympathy to all her family.
Darlene Henderson
I am so sorry to here of Bettys passing she was such a nice lady, so friendly and so sweet ,,she will be greatly missed at queens manor
Rhonda Perry, Catherine MacEachern and Sharon Doggett.
Dear Aunt Charlotte, Uncle Lloyd and Aunt Karen. Our deepest condolences during this sad time of your Moms passing. Betty alway had a smile. Cherish your memories if we can do anything please let us know. God Bless your families.
Angela Jones
Dear Karen and family
So sorry to hear of the passing of your mom. Condolences to you and the family.
Kirk and Donna Whynot
To Charlotte,Karen and Families, so sorry to hear about you Mom’s passing, you are all in our thoughts and prayers.
Rosemary Wamboldt
Karen,
So sorry to read of your Moms passing … She was a lovely person ! My deepest condolence to you and the rest of your family …
Judy Hyson
I am so sorry to hear about your mother. She was a lovely woman.My condolences to the family.
Don and Vi Mackenzie
Charlotte and Robert,
We are sorry to hear of your mothers passing. Please be assured of our support at this time.
Enjoy the memories.
Madison Murphy
I would like to send my deepest sympathys to Betty’s family. Although I only knew her for a short time she held a special place in my heart and always knew how to put a smile on my face. She will be truly missed.
Pam Foley
I’ve known Betty all my life—she was a dear lady, always had a smile on her face. I’m so sorry for your loss
Norman Rafuse for the Milton Baptist Church
From the family and friends at Milton Baptist Church we pass on our prayers to the Borden family with sincere condolences at this sad time.
Lin & Greg Conrad
To the Borden family,
We are so sorry for your loss. We met Betty many years ago and enjoyed our chats over the years.
Larry and Laura Greenough
To the Borden family,
So sorry to hear about your Mom. Our thoughts are with you in this difficult time.
Cahy de Rome
To Betty’s family,
So sorry to hear of Betty’s passing. I will certainly miss that beautiful smile whenever I saw her at the Manor. My thoughts are with you at this time.
Cathy Lavender
To Charlotte, Karen and Lloyd , and their families
I was so sad to hear of Betty’s passing. She was a wonderful lady and I have only the very best of memories of her. She was so proud of her kids and well she should be as she raised all 3 of you well and I am proud to call Betty and the 3 of you my friends. Remembering her spirit will keep you strong during these next days and weeks of sadness and feelings of loss. If there is anything I can do to help just let me know.
Will keep you all in my prayers….sending love and hugs.
Cathy Lavender-Acker
Shirley & Paul Shot
To the Borden family: Our sincere condolences and prayers are extended to your family during this sad time. You will carry her Love in your hearts always.
Marie & Carl Davis
Karen , sorry to hear about your Mother’s passing. We arere thinking of you in your time of sorrow.
MURIELand RAYMOND WHYNOT
So very sorry to hear about Betty.s passing.She was a very special lady ./and will be missed by all who knew her.
Hugh& Pat Dixon
To. Charlotte ,Karen &family
Sorry to hear of your mother’s passing.
She was a lovely lady.
Thinking of you all at this difficult time.
Bruce Theriau
Karen and Family
Sorry to hear of your Mothers passing, my thoughts are with you at this difficult time.
Wendy & Mitchell Roy
Our deepest sympathy to the family…
Clyde & Wendy (Smith) MacAdams
Charlotte, Karen, Lloyd and families,
We were so sorry to hear of your mother’s passing. Please know that you are in our thoughts at this difficult time.
Linda Lucier
So very sorry to hear this . Betty was the biggest smile I met when visiting the Manor. I will truly miss seeing her.
All of my life I remember Betty always making me feel that she was happy to see me .Loved her
Lin Lucier
Cindy Dalby
So sad to hear of this. I’ll always remember her with her huge smile and cheery personality. My sincerest condolences to Charlotte, Lloyd, Karen. My prayers are with you all at this time.
Manson and Nancy White
Lloyd, Wendy & Families:
You are in our thoughts and Prayers during this difficult time.
Carol Knell & Anjay Juckiewicz
We were saddened to hear of Betty’s passing. We got to know her at the Manor. She was such a sweet little lady and will be missed. We will are keeping your family in our thoughts and prayers.
Curtis & Linda Leslie Maillett
To Karen & All The Borden Family.. We are so very sorry to read this sad news. Betty certainly loved her family and they loved her. She will be missed by so many. God Bless You All, during and through these difficult days ahead. Sincerely, Linda & Curtis
Liz Boland
Charlotte,Lloyd, & Karen, and families. So sorry to hear about your Mom’s passing. She was a wonderful lady.
Christine Mac Pherson
My sincere condolences to Betty’s family. She was a wonderful person and her smile will be missed.
JOANNE DAGLEY
Charlotte,Karen and the Borden family.So sorry for your loss.Thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.R.I.P. BETTY !!
melanie Sarty
To the Borden family ,Betty will be greatly missed at the Manor .Her smile was infectious and she always made me smile .We all loved her !
Lynn Lavender
Dear Charlotte and Family,
Sorry to hear about your Mom. Take care!
Eleanor Roberts
To the family of Betty Borden:
We would like to take this opportunity to send our deepest condolences. May the good memories help you through this most difficult of times.
Jo-Ann Baker
So sorry to hear of your mother’s passing. Will miss seeing her at the manor.
Gail & Robbie Whynot
Charlotte, Lloyd, Karen & Family
Sorry to hear of your moms passing. I always enjoyed our chats over the years when I picked her on her way home from town Sometimes i wouldn’t see her for a time but she never forgot who you were. Thinking of you at this sad time.
Gail & Robbie
Christine MacPherson
My sincere condolences to Betty’s family. She was a sweet person and her smile will be missed by everyone.
Rika Bolivar
so sorry for your loss may she fly with the Angels
vanessa whynot
My deepest sympathy to Betty’s family.She will be missed at Queens Manor.She was such a sweet lady.
joanne and larry fancy
lloyd,wendy and karen.
so sorry to hear of your moms passing she always had a big smile and was a lovely lady
Bob and Karen Barnes
We send our deepest sympathy to you all as you grieve the loss of your dear Mother. She was such a friendly lady with a wonderful smile. May God comfort and keep you in the days ahead.
Holly and Philip Smith
To all of Betty’s Family;
Your Mother was indeed a very special lady. She had the ability to remember everyone she met and to remember so much about each one! That special smile of hers sure brightened many a day for folks in the area.
We are thinking of you all as you mourn the loss of your dear Mother.
Annette Hartlen
So sorry to hear about your mom. She was one of the kindest ,sweetest people I ever had the privledge of knowing. No matter how much time had passed when she ran into you whether out walking or in a store she never forgot who you were and always took the time to chat and share a laugh. She was a very special individual and will be missed.
Bev Hann
Karen I am so sorry to hear of the passing of your mom my thoughts and prayers are with you at this sad time
Elaine and Junior Williams
Dear Karen
We are sorry about your mom. Our thoughts are with you.
Doug & Valerie Wamboldt
Lloyd, & Karen, Charlotte , and families. So sorry to hear about your Mom’s passing
Christine Westhaver
Karen,
So sorry to hear of your mothers passing, thinking of you.
Duncan & Goretti Mac Isaac
Dear Borden Family;
Although we didn’t know Betty personally, it is obvious that she was a fine lady. Her family is a testimonial to that.
Sincerely,
Dunc and Goretti.
Nellie Crouse
Dear Borden family,
Deepest sympathy on the loss of your mother. “B.B.” and I had some wonderful times together. She always had a smile and a laugh. She was a great person.
Karen wamboldt
To the Borden Families, Sorry to hear of the loss of your mom, Thinking of you Karen and the rest of your families at this sad and difficult time.
Helen Lilly
Charlotte, Robert,Michelle and Family:
My thoughts and prayers are with your family at this sad time.
Eleanor & Vaughn West
Karen
So sorry to learn of your Mom’s passing. We know how special she was. Remember her love and the good times
you had. RIP Betty
Bonnie and Barry Francis
To the Borden family,
So sorry to hear of your mothers passing. She was a wonderful lady. Sending hugs and prayers to you all.
Terry & Carol Whynott
Lloyd and Wendy and family , so sorry to hear about your mom’s passing.
Gale and Art Deveau
Charlotte, Karen, Lloyd and families
We were sorry to hear about the passing of your Mom, please accept our sincere condolences at this sad time.
Robenia and Theresa Brewster
Charlotte, Lloyd, Karen and family. Sorry to hear about your Mom’s passing. Our thoughts are with you at this difficult time. Keep all the good memories close to your hearts as it will help you get through the days to come.
Lorna & Dale Hamm
Charlotte and Robert
We are so sorry to hear of your Mom’s passing. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this sad time in life. Remember and cherish the memories that you had with your Mom.
Pat & Doug Lohnes
To Lloyd & Wendy
Our sincere sympathy to you and your family.
Pat & Doug Lohnes
Maryann and Scott Rhyno
Karen, Charlotte, Lloyd and families,
We are so very sorry to hear about your mom. Betty always had a big smile and a hello when ever I saw her. Please accept our deepest condolences. R.I.P. Betty.
Bonnie Hartlen and Paul E. Whynot
Very sorry to hear of your moms passing. She always seemed to have a smile on her face, she must have made everyone around her happy too. She is with the angels now and showing them to smile also, keep that in your hearts. Take care of each other and again you have our sympathy!
Bonnie and Paul
david and beattie barnes
we are so sorry to hear of bettys passing we will miss her smile and know you have wonderful memories of her. our thoughts and prayers are with you
Merv Bernadette Hartlen
We are saddened to hear of Betty’s passing. She was such a
friendly lady with a great big smile always with a big heart and wanting to have
a chat. She and my Mom were great friends. God takes another angel home
marily whynot
Karen…so very sorry to hear about your mom. She was a very strong and determined lady. Take care.
Peter and Sharon
To the Borden family,sorry to hear about the loss of your mom.Keep all your happy times you had together in your mind and she’ll always be with you.
Marion Davis
To the Bordon family, we are sorry to read about the loss of your mother.
Gary and Marion
Kathy, Joanne and Wade Macleod
To the Borden family,
We are so sorry to hear about the passing of your mom. She was always very friendly and ready to have a chat. Our thoughts are with you all at this time.
cynthia and allan wilson
So sorry to hear of your moms passing,She was a sweet woman and we loved seeing her going around to the yard sales which she truly enjoyed.Take care and remember all the time you had together,
Donald & Donna Huphman (Whynot )
Charlotte ,Lloyd,Karen and families I was shocked when I went on Chandlers site and seen that Betty had passed away I’m so sorry for your loss .Betty was a lovely lady and always stopped me where ever she seen me to talk and I remember going to her place as a kid and she was always so nice to me .((((hugs)))) to u all
Sheila and charles brannen
Ben,lesley,karen and family. We are so sorry about betty’s passing. I loved her spirit she always had a smile on her face. Take comfort in each other at this sad time and just know that you are in our prayers. Sheila and charles brannen.
Eddie and Evie Fisher
To the Bordon family . Sorry to hear about the passing of your mom We would like to express our deepest sympathy to you all. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. Betty was a lovely lady.
angela hartlen
I would like to offer my sincere condolences to the Borden Family. Betty was such a sweet lady…as warm and friendly as a person can be. My thoughts are with her family during this sad time.